4 Mart 2010 Perşembe

Mixed Marriage

Marriage do someone from another country has many dangerous effects to two people that will marry each other.Both of them are different country.Normally they have different ideas,cultures religious.Whether or not they love each other so much, a mixed marriage isn't suitable for two foreign people.
People can't understand each other eventhough they have same language,religious, cultures.According to the study 70 percentage of mixed marriage finishes with divorce.The one reason, their culture feature very different each other.For example,one of my relatives married a person that his family is from Turkey ,but he was born in Germany.He brought up there ,he cant understand any idioms.When she says the neighbour's husband takes his wife to wander ,he says 'good'.Therefore she has to use clear words all time.she sometimes becomes like mad.Even if they come from same root , they cant understand exactly each other.It is harder to agree a person that has a foreign root.Secondly they have problems about religious.If one of them is Müslüm an the other is Christian,both of them want to live their country,but they have to make a choose.When they have a boy baby, Müslüm wants to circumcise his/her son ,but Christian doesnt let it instead of this ,he/she wants to baptize.This causes a big problem.It causes even adivorce.The third of these reasons they have to decide where to live.Of course each of themwants her/his country.Neither she nor he wants to live a foreign country.As they think their children will be affected the enviroment that they live ,both of them want to live their countries.Next they will face bad attitude from people.They always say wrong and bad things about her/his,as they are different country.Also they can think he/she is spy.Even with all reasons people think that love beats everything,it is enough to everything, but in reak life it isnt right.We have to think seriously about our person who willmarry and her /his culture,customs...
Marriage is an important thing.It isnt a game.Therefore mixed marriage is a serious issue.People think twice when they decide to do such thing.

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